The way some guys act clearly indicate that they will end up as chronic
headache for their wives in the nearest future if care is not taken.
I can’t really blame guys who are involved in the act of humiliating ladies in
public and online because these ladies in question must have torment their
heart but going to the extent of destroying their intrinsic values is the major
Therefore let’s take a look at signs that indicate a guy will become an
1. Extremely stingy
Some guys are so stingy to the extent that they can’t call their girlfriends for
just 1minute in a day. The only time they call for long period is during free night
calls or bonus awarded from telecom providers. If they call for 30secs, they will hang up and later explain through whatsapp/BBM that it was network failure.
2. Highly promiscuous
This issue is common to perverts who has never zipped up for once in their life
by chasing every tom and harry in skirt. These are the kinds that will eventually
become sugar daddy, chasing ladies who are young enough to be their daughter in future.
3. Very lazy
Some guys are so idle to the extent that they have no goal, vision and purpose
in life. They are just too lazy to seize opportunities around them as they are
only seen in betting shops like nairabet, etc. to make money.
4. Ridicule ladies
I hate when a guy beat or disgrace his girlfriend in public just because she
hangs out with a guy. I consider this as a dysfunctional act because a man in
making will not stoop so low to involve himself in this thrash. Meanwhile on
social media some consider all ladies as whores of which we still have the rare
and good ones.
5. Habit of alcoholism and smoking
For a guy that consume too much alcohol and smoke probably in the bid to
control his anger is not a man. Such guys cannot become responsible
husbands to their wives because they can use children’s school fee and other
budgetary money to drink and smoke.
6. Wrong lifestyle
Some guys rock and roll with the wrong peer groups who have influence them
to have shameful lifestyles like yahoo yahoo occupation, rape gangs and area
7. Careless attitude
The way some guys behave can be likened to a voracious animal. They dump and change ladies like sanitary pads as they care less about their emotion by suggesting abortion for any sex journey that becomes foetus.
8. Poor financial planning
Some guys blow money like trumpet without thinking about future investment. They spend their money on vague things like phones, prostitutes, etc. Such guys will eventually become an irresponsible husband.
9. Bad listening habit
Most guys have this habit and it results in ineffective communication, which
usually have an adverse impact on the productivity of the individual and their
relationships. Poor listening definitely make a huge, negative impact on team
morale and productivity. This situation usually results in conflicts and
misunderstandings among partners , and it creates a negative environment.
10. Lack of Self control
Some guys lack the ability to control their emotions, behavior, and desires.
Guys should constantly be striving towards self-control and discipline, because these are foundations of integrity. One thing they need to understand about self-control is that it is not as much about saying no to certain fleshly desires, lusts and cravings but more about living and abundant life free from addiction regret and shame.
11. Interrupting a conversation
Guys are good at Interrupting a conversation with improper body language or inappropriate words and this has a negative impact on their relationships. Some does this a lot and it annoys me.
Some guys are so dirty that if they should pass you, oh my God! you won’t be able to breathe for hours and most of them terms it sexy…. Imagine animal
odour is now sexy ta…go and sleep it’s a turn off to most ladies.. They love
guys that are neat, guys that organizes their home.
Some guys brag a lot. I have no problem with a guy having money. However, I
do have a problem when you decide to treat women like gold-diggers whose
eyes are bound to widen at the mention of “Bugatti”. Yes, They like money, just
like most men, but that doesn’t mean you should also shout it…. Brags are turn
off for them.